What is Borderline Personality Disorder?

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Therapy in OH and KY

You’re not too much. You’re in pain, and nothing you’re trying is working.

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can feel like your emotions run on overdrive. One moment you’re okay, and the next you’re overwhelmed, angry, numb, or feeling abandoned—even when nothing seems to have changed.

Maybe you’ve been told you're too sensitive, dramatic, or unstable. You might feel intense highs and lows in your relationships, struggle to trust others (or yourself), and constantly fear rejection or abandonment.

Having BPD doesn’t mean you’re “manipulative” or “broken.” It means you’ve lived with pain and you’ve had to adapt in order to survive it.

At L.E. Psych, we see you. And we specialize in helping people living with BPD—or traits of BPD—find steadiness, compassion, and connection, both inside and out.

So, what is BPD?

BPD is a mental health condition characterized by difficulty regulating emotions, navigating relationships, and maintaining a stable sense of self. For many people, BPD is rooted in early attachment wounds, childhood trauma, or invalidating environments.

If you live with BPD, you might experience:

  • Intense emotions that shift rapidly

  • Fear of being abandoned—even in small moments

  • Difficulty trusting others or feeling “too much”

  • Sudden changes in self-image or goals

  • Black-and-white thinking (idealizing, then devaluing people, commonly known as “splitting”)

  • Impulsive behaviors or self-harm

  • Chronic feelings of emptiness

  • Anger or irritability that feels hard to control

Our Approach to BPD Therapy

We don’t treat you like a diagnosis. We see a full person who has been through a lot—and who deserves support that’s curious, compassionate, and consistent. Our therapy approach centers emotional safety, self-understanding, and skills that fit real life. These are some of the therapies we use most often for our clients with BPD.

✦ Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT skills are designed to help you regulate emotions, tolerate distress, and navigate relationships more effectively. You’ll learn strategies that support emotional balance without suppressing your sensitivity.

✦ Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

ACT helps you relate to your thoughts and feelings in a new way, without needing to control or avoid them. Together, we explore how to make space for pain while staying connected to your values and goals. This can be especially powerful for adults navigating career pressure, loneliness, or self-criticism.

✦ Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Mindfulness helps you slow down, notice your experience without judgment, and respond instead of react. For professionals and busy adults, mindfulness also supports attention, emotion regulation, and self-compassion in high-stress environments.

When appropriate, we also treat co-morbid conditions such as depression, PTSD, anxiety, grief, and substance use.

What BPD Therapy Looks Like at L.E. Psych

The team at L.E. Psych understands that therapy isn’t about feeling less emotional, but feeling safe enough to show up as your authentic self, without fear of being too much.

You can expect:

  • A therapist who welcomes all parts of your experience

  • Practical tools for calming overwhelming emotions

  • Space to process shame and fear with care

  • Support in improving relationships and boundaries

  • A stable, grounding therapeutic relationship

Whether you’ve been struggling for years or are just now wondering if BPD describes your experience, we’re here to help you find clarity and connection.

Start BPD Therapy in Ohio or Kentucky

You don’t have to keep struggling with the highs, lows, and disconnect that BPD can bring. If you’re a young professional or adult ready to feel more stable, connected, and grounded in your life, know that therapy can help and is available for you.

We offer online BPD therapy across Ohio and Kentucky, and 38 other states in a format that fits your life.